Nefrelle isn't a particularly outspoken member of this group. Though much of her time is spent with the others, she says little, preferring to speak when spoken to out of courtesy for their collective conversations. I'd imagine she'd have listened to Nia's chatting about thieving and current happenings, and perhaps have been introduced to Kal'Ar at some point. She recognizes the Ronso's fame and power, and is impressed, but treats him just like every other member of their travelling group. To clarify this, she treats them all kindly, almost as if they were her own children; after all, she watches over their health as a white mage.
Nefrelle also loves Nia's cooking, calling her a "first-rate chef".
Well, i suppose the first thing you would have learned about Kal'Ar is that he is quick to anger, and generally hostile when angered. However (Based on us all still working together for 6 months) He shows patience with his companions, and enjoys their company, having learned that they all possess abilities that contribute to the party in ways he cannot. However, he does have a bit of a warrior complex (While he respects other classes, a fighter always seems just a little bit more efficient to him.
Generally, Kal'Ar can seem boastful and proud, or even antagonistic, but it is simply his way, having spent a long time associating with other prideful, violent pit fighters.
I know I haven't been keeping up with my own game here, and I want to just say I'm sorry. My mental state has been, well, less than good the last couple months. I'm trying to pull myself out of a serious funk right now, and I'm hoping getting back to this will help me pull through. I understand if everyone has made new commitments to newer, more active games, and if you have pulled out I understand. If however you are interested in continuing then I am willing to pick things back up as well.
Sorry for my late reply; everything here is going to be all right, and I don't mind waiting at all. Take all the time you need, for it sounds like you truly need it, as well as my sympathies. I haven't moved on, and am certainly not ready to yet.
So other than getting muddy and being miserable what are you three doing at this moment, or rather what actions are your characters taking. Are you looking for anything in particular, where might you be looking, what's the plan from here?