So, let's talk about "teams".
I consider myself to be pretty open minded; I honestly didn't think that the whole "other team" thing was offensive, just a silly term. If it does offend anyone, I apologize, I certainly meant no offense.
I will confess to a moment of stupidity, though. When Reralae first suggested retconning Arancon to Aranwen, my exact thought process was "okay, no problem, no difference in game mechanics... oh, wait. Arancon hooked up with Davena, I don't want to pretend that never happened!"
Because I was... what? Unaware that two women can have sex? (insert facepalm emoji)
I mean, good grief. If we're changing someone's gender and character retroactively, it's not like we cannot change the sexuality of another make believe person. Durr.
I figured that out pretty quickly, but that was my embarassing knee jerk reaction.
As for tolerance? Those of you who are my facebook friends have seen me rant about this a couple of times. I identify as a Christian... who doesn't comprehend how people can justify turning a blind eye to other sexual stuff but fixate on people who happen to have the same gender. It's utterly private business to begin with, why does it concern me any more if they have the same junk?
It doesn't. My job as a Christian is to love people. That's it.
But back to the game, if we're going to have the very realistic situation where two consenting adults have casual sex, how can we only accept that if they are opposite genders? That's just silly.
As a final note, in case we ever need this to be stated - the Inn's official policy has always been that everyone deserves to be treated with respect. I don't care what race, gender, religion, political affiliation, sexual orientation, etc, etc, etc you identify as - you deserve to be treated respectfully. Hate speech of any sort means that you have no place in this community, period.