...I figured he'd stay behind, actually. Falloes called him to Davnor and he believes he still has work to do there, kind of thing... That's kind of the way I wrote it when Ch'dau was chit-chatting with the Calestrian guards at the Bent Copper, anyway. *shrugs*
I'm cool with him sticking around for a bit, too, though, but I suspect he'll go back to Davnor in pursuit of his own quest at some point.
Aaaaand, as to the wedding thing - yeah, I'm sure I'll get them there and I've got the whole thing written down "just in case." I suppose I'm just nervous as it's my first one and I don't wanna flub it. 